For years, I labored under the cozy illusion that there were "safe" choices in life and "risky" choices. And of course I was drawn to the ones that felt safer. Until I saw with my own eyes, in my own finances and my own life, that sometimes the safest choice of all is actually the most risky. And that realization changed everything.
We're generally optimists about things and -- though it seems like a paradox -- we become most optimistic when we've delved into all the bad stuff that could possibly befall us. That's the only way we can really know that we're well prepared -- and it's easy to be optimistic when you're prepared. And it only makes sense to prepare for market crashes, because they're inevitable and inescapable. Here's our game plan for dealing with them.
Almost a year ago, we realized that we'd reached financial independence. And reaching it hasn't been anything like what we might have expected. Our FI life is still life, with all the usual ups and downs. Some things are better, but most things are the same. This year has taught us: Financial independence is a good goal, but a bad goalpost.
We all tend to talk about saving money and reducing needs in ways that make us focus on the aspiration to be income-poor. But there are some important times when we should instead think like a rich person, since any aspiring FIer eventually becomes one!